... and this is called GENESIS

  ....and this is what I wish. This is what a REAL relationship is all about. I strive for this. I want a  man who could be able to take care of his own business and so do I. Yet someone I can serve as a team, a partner!

I strive to regain financial stability as to not crowding a partner (this is what I believe in) It frustrates me that I'm not stable with it comes to financial gain due to some unfavorable circumstances.

Quoting KC Concepcion:
      
 

In a brief conversation, a man, speaking to a woman, was out to pursue the question, "What kind of man are you looking for?"

She sat quietly for a moment before looking him in the eye and asked, "Do you really want to know?"
Reluctantly, he said, "Yes" as she began to expound...


"As a woman in this day and age, I am in a position to ask a man what he can do for me that I can't do for myself.

I pay my own bills.

I take care of my household without the help of any man- or woman for that matter. I am in the position to ask, 'What can you bring to the table?'"


The man looked at her. Clearly he thought that she was referring to money.

She quickly corrected his thought and stated, "I am not referring to money... I need something more. I need a man who is striving for perfection in every aspect of life."

He sat back in his chair, folded his arms, and asked her to explain.

She said,


"I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection Mentally. I need conversation and mental stimulation. I don't need a simple-minded man.

I am looking for someone who is striving for perfection Spiritually because I don't need to be unequally yoked... Believers mixed with unbelievers is a recipe for disaster.

I need a man who is striving for perfection Financially because I don't need and want a to be financial... burden.

I am looking for someone who is Sensitive enough to understand what I go through as a woman, but Strong enough to keep me grounded.

I am looking for someone who I can Respect. In order to be submissive, I must respect him. I cannot be submissive to a man who isn't taking care of his business. I have no problem being submissive... He just has to be worthy.

God made woman to be a helpmate for man. At this point, I can't help a man if he can't help himself."


When she finished her spill, she looked at him. He sat there with a puzzled look on his face, and exclaimed,  "You're asking for a whole lot!"

To which she gracefully replied...


"Only if you think I'm not WORTH a lot." :)

Look into My Private Closet

We all fall in love at some point in our lives. It doesn't matter if you're a gazillionaire, a cowboy, an astronaut, a stripper, a minister, a cross dresser, a dyke or that broke homeless bum under the Brooklyn bridge. It doesn't matter. Love is indiscreet. Love is blind. Love is a many splendor thing.

It feels like Christmas morning, when you run down the stairs in a hurry to open your Christmas presents hoping to get what you always wanted. It's like the rush you feel when your on a fast and wild roller coaster ride. It has that same breath-taking effect you get when you make your first jump out of a C-130 after your parachute opens up. It's as intense as a gunfight - simulated or not. It's like going 160 on a sports car and saying "shit I think I'm going to die!" and you never hold back, it's your life or nothing.


Why do we always look for love? How does it really feel? Why do we have to be messed up all the time? How good does it feel to trust someone completely with all your life and serve and be served as a team? We long for sex, the pleasure of it but feel nothingness afterwards! Everything's so fast paced now. What happened to the values, the walk in the parks, hearing your lover's voice and feeling wonderful and ecstatic all the time? The playfulness, yes most especially that; the ability to play like kids. The most simple things are left to be forgotten.


To trust and be honest are the most essential part of a relationship and to be able to bear your soul and even your deepest and darkest fears slap it with the moments of desires, as you whisper into your lover's ear and make him quiver; that there should be sensual warmth going to the brain down to the heart. What ever happened to the simplicity of things?




The world is depending on one night stands and over rated dates. I've been there and it's a very dark place to be lurking in. We kill it sometimes by making things complicated. Let's make it simple. WHAT DO YOU WANT? Make a list.  Obsessiveness kills, jealousy doesn't make sense! Don't go flogging the guy into settling in an early stage of the relationship and men needs to start manning up and be confident about themselves.


Let's talk about trust.


Most guys would put their best foot forward first to get the girl of their dreams and mask themselves with lies and deceits. This happens when they want to get into a ladies' pants too! As we are being swept into that place where they want us to be --- attraction and all that mushy stuff. We forget our list! We tend not to ask details details details. Like, what do you do, EXACTLY? It is hard to discern the things you want to know about the other person.



Another thing: Don't fall for a guy who would tell you "I love you" after waking up beside him on a one night stand. OMG! That won't work because he definitely has issues.


Ladies make sure you have careers that guys would be proud of and this would be vice versa. Do not lie! Lying won't do any good. If your married and on a process of divorce, make it clear! Heartaches are caused by lying, so as cheating.


Grown adults should be responsible for their own actions. Ruining another person's life would come back to you like a bitch! Don't start something if you don't want it ending it dramatically, or even wishing the other person is dead.

I've learned to be honest in every way 'cause it hurts to be lied at. If you're not interested, say you're not interested. If you are say "I'm interested in you and I'm willing to brave it out!" See how easy! Save the minor heartache from the terrible ones. 

Wouldn't it be nice to be feeling like this: "I'm just happy and glad that I have her in my arms now. I couldn't be happier. I will do everything in my power to shield her from pain; I'll make and keep her happy. I won't throw her out of the door to spend a night out in the streets; she'll always have my wings to keep her sheltered. I will love her with all my heart, soul and mind." --- I will keep the author unknown. All I can say is he's man enough to admit it to himself. Wishing a lover something like that and be treated the same? 





*** I've borrowed words from another author on this.